VOL. 6, NO. 35
ACT YOUR
AGE!
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FRIENDS, DO NOT BE CHILDREN IN UNDERSTANDING; IN MALICE BE BABES,
BUT
IN UNDERSTANDING BE MATURE.
1 Corinthians 14:20
ALL THAT IS NECESSARY FOR EVIL TO TRIUMPH
IS FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO STAND BACK AND DO NOTHING.
Scripture: Hebrews 6
1. Let
us stop going over the same old ground again and again, always teaching those
first lessons about Christ. Let us go on instead to other things and become
mature in our understanding, as strong Christians ought to be. Surely we don't
need to speak further about the foolishness of trying to be saved by being
good, or about the necessity of faith in God;
2. you
don't need further instruction about baptism and spiritual gifts and the resurrection
of the dead and eternal judgment.
… I am
confident you are producing the good fruit that comes along with your
salvation.
10. For God is
not unfair. How can God forget your hard work for the Lord or forget the way
you used to show your love for God -- and still do -- by helping his children?
11. And we are
anxious that you keep right on loving others as long as life lasts, so that you
will get your full reward.
12. Then, knowing what lies ahead
for you, you won't become weary with being a Christian, nor become spiritually
dull and indifferent, but you will be anxious to follow the example of those
who receive all that God has promised them because of their strong faith and
patience.
30. Even youths
grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall;
31. but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
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NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO GET ANGRY –
Thanks
to Marv Stark who told me the story of an amateur golfer who was playing a
round of golf with Arnold Palmer. The amateur golfer hit several poor shots,
and after quite a few holes, he was getting more and more angry with his game.
Finally, the amateur golfer missed a short putt and swore repeatedly at his
putter and everything else in his bag, cursing the bad luck he was having.
Arnold
Palmer looked at the frantic man and said, “Just relax and enjoy the game.
You’re just not good enough to get angry.”
That’s
true about a lot of things that get us stirred up. Sometimes what we really
lack is the skill or the knowledge to do something. We don’t know enough to be
angry. But rather than admit it, people convert ignorance to hostility, not
improvement and understanding. (I’m sure that you are relieved to know that I’m
not talking about you.)
We
will come back to the gospel according to Arnold Palmer in a moment. The
Apostle Paul said the same thing to the Corinthians.
“FRIENDS,
DO NOT BE CHILDREN IN UNDERSTANDING;
IN MALICE BE BABES,
BUT IN UNDERSTANDING BE MATURE.”
1 Corinthians
So Paul challenged the Corinthians to “act
your age.” This lesson is not about years, it is about maturity – mature faith
combined with a reasonable amount of knowledge. So that makes this a difficult
lesson.
Why?
Because industries spend billions of dollars trying to help us look and act
like we are some other age. They want us to buy make up to make us look
younger, or products to create poufy hair to make us look older or more
beautiful. Some people began smoking at an early age so that they would be seen
as adults, while others work hard to quit so that they will live longer.
How
much advertising can you think of that is
aimed at making people think they are something that they are not?
What
people look like does not determine the quality of their thinking. For example:
When a
You've heard someone say to a child, "Act your age," in an
attempt to curb inappropriate bad behavior. Can you imagine a 2 year old acting
like … a two year old! Some adults need
to hear this too.
There are great benefits to spiritual
maturity and one of them is that we get to make decisions based upon the
accumulation of past experiences. Often these are better decisions later in
life. When you
listen to what the past has taught, you can learn to be more
patient, loving, and respectful (and much more). However, as evidenced in the
book of Hebrews,
sometimes people get stuck at a particular maturity level and don't seem to
grow at all.
No matter how long you've been reading the Bible, there is
always more to learn. I have heard people tell me that they struggle to believe
in the God they learned about in Sunday School. Well, I hope so! Children need concrete images; maturity
requires a bit of abstract thinking that sees God in love, peace,
reconciliation, and hope – like the story we told to the children this morning.
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KNOWLEDGE -- the
more I learn the more I don’t know
Life doesn't slow down as we
mature; indeed it seems to accelerate. Every time we explore God's Word, we
come from a slightly different place emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. That
changing perspective can lead to exciting new insights about God and what it means
to live a life of faith. Immature Christians say, "I already know it
all." Mature Christians say, "The more I learn, the more I discover
how much
I don't know."
Let me be blunt. There is far
more we don’t know about God’s world than we do know. Spiritual humility before
God is the beginning of mature faith.
Mature Christians know that
acceptance of and love for others doesn't mean you endorse everything they
believe. But maturity makes you listen. Mature faith seeks understanding, but not
polarization and staking out territory.
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PATIENCE – be
diligent in study, patient with God
Patience is probably the
most important ingredient in developing spiritual maturity. While there are ways to
speed up your
acquisition of knowledge, knowing what to do with that knowledge can take time. If you want to grow
spiritually, be diligent in study, and patient with God.
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ANGER – it only
shows our own limitations
Why did we begin with the
Arnold Palmer story now? He’s no theologian. Because most of us don’t know
enough about God to be mad at God. Most of us do not know enough about people
who live in other parts of the world to be angry with them. We only show our
own parochialism when we expect our standards to be the model for everyone
else. God’s zip code is not 95405 – nor is it
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TRANSCENDENT RELIGION -- the human response
to the mysteries of God
I’m a school teacher. I’ve never stopped
being one. One of the classes that I taught was World Religions. We would
always begin that class in search of a definition of religion. Here’s one of
the best we came up with:
RELIGION IS OUR HUMAN RESPONSE
TO THE MYSTERIES OF GOD.
Why are there so many different religions?
Because people have different mysteries. They live in different places. In
But God is one. God transcends all human
conditions. And so we respond to God in
different ways, because our needs are different.
Not only do most of us not know enough
about God to be mad at God, we don’t know enough about God to even love
God. We need to get smarter than we are.
Read, study, discuss, and then turn your discontent into something
constructive. Turn anger into acts of love. It’s a goal worth attempting.
Friends, do not be children in
understanding; in malice be babes, but in understanding be mature.
Only
be a child in expressing a small malice, but in understanding be mature.
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If you want to
get your way, use a little psychology.
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If you want to
get along with others, do a little reading before you do a little speaking.
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If we want to get
along with people on the other side of the world, visit their country, read
about their religion, understand their culture, and hear their ancestral
stories.
We
don’t know enough to be mad about them.
They
don’t know enough about us to get mad at us either, not that it matters.
Remember
what we were asking five years ago – after 9/11?
We
said, “Why do they hate us?”
And
some of us were very self righteous and said that there is nothing about our
country to hate. We are a beacon of hope to everyone.
But
now we say, maybe not.
We
don’t always live up to that self image.
Not
everyone is buying our self image.
And
so our last defense is maybe they don’t know enough about us to hate us, but
what we fear is that maybe they do.
This
is a good scripture lesson for us today. I’ve never thought Rev. Arnold Palmer
was much of a theologian, but then I don’t know him that well. Maybe Arnold
Palmer could teach me something. Maybe I’m not good enough to get mad.
So
I’m going to use my education, psychology, patience, love, mediation, business
skills, parenting skills, and try to get better. I’ve learned some of these
things and they work.
This
is not a lesson about age or anger, it is a lesson about getting better. We
don’t get better when we cut off the dialog. Recognizing that is maturity.
Not
quite good enough, but getting better.
Religion
is the human response to the mysteries of God. Explore some of those mysteries,
those skills you know you have, and those ideas you don’t know, and when you
do, you won’t want to be angry with God. You will want to fall in love with God
all over again. Remember the first time you fell in love? When you did, you
remembered that God is the source of that feeling. You can do it again. Just
like the first time, only better.
Religion
is about getting better.
But
I think we may have missed the point of the Gospel according to
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We are good enough to keep learning,
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We are good enough to reach out the hand of friendship
to anyone.
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We are good enough to have an opinion about politics.
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We are good enough to care for children,
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to reach out to the bereaved,
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to make a hospital visit,
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to cook
breakfast for the kids at
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We are good enough to worship together.
We are good enough to be loved by God.
You’re
good enough, and you’re getting better every day.
So
act your age.
Dr. John H. Cushman
Presbyterian Church of the Roses